Desperate to separate for peace sake!

You may have read in last week’s papers that domestic violence applications have increased by 50% over the last couple of years. At the same time, family lawyers are aware that applications for separation and divorce are decreasing at practically the same rate. Two questions arise: firstly, why is this happening, and secondly, why is this so bad for the family?

Taking the important second question first, research has shown that it is not necessarily the separation itself that creates damage for families and children. Instead, it is the level of conflict before, during and after that wreaks the most damage. In the current recessionary climate families are struggling under huge financial burdens and constraints to survive in one home. This results in hugely increased levels of tension and high levels of conflict, resulting in the shocking increase in domestic violence applications.

Returning to the first question: Why is it happening? It is because families in crisis believe that in the current financial constraints they don’t have the option of a “normal” separation. Again there are two parts to this: firstly, they believe they have no options because they can’t sell property and / or their mortgage is too high, and secondly, they believe that they can’t afford legal fees.

We have all heard the old saying that “there are many ways to skin a cat”. In our offices we can offer many different options to suit all circumstances, including budget constraints. We use “brainstorming” to try to produce creative and workable solutions for you even in a situation which might feel unsolvable or hopeless.

We can provide set price packages to work with you through your separation or divorce. Discuss a workable package with your family lawyer. Payment by instalments is always a practical option.

There was never a better time to get good value. The potential result for you could be an effective, peaceful and family-focused solution.

Helen Collins, Partner

Wolfe & Co. Solicitor
See www.wolfe.ie for more information

Helen.collins@wolfe.ie